The golden rule and the atonement

Keith during fhe: the golden rule is do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Logan: well there is the black rule. If people are mean to you, you can be mean to them. ************** Tonight Dylan was beyond tired. She cried about everything and fought us tooth and nail during bedtime. We tried to remind her that it was her choice to be happy and that she was choosing to be grumpy so if she wanted she could change her mind she could. She grumpily agreed to say her prayer tonight but not without informing us that she was NEVER going to get in bed again. Dylan's prayer: I am grateful for my parents. I am grateful for stores so we can buy food and eat it. I know heavenly father loves us and that he knows our names. I am grateful that we can choose to be happy. Please bless my friends to choose to be nice to me and to not pinch me. She finished her prayer much happier than it started. A while later she started crying and told me that she was saying bad words and when she does that it makes Jesus sad. She felt terrible. I was so happy to explain the atonement in children's terms. It was an emotional chat for both of us. I hugged and kisses her goodnight. And I think she fell asleep before keith and I left the room.

Goobers

Keith helped the kids do their chores this morning so they could go outside and play. While making beds he discovered something pretty gross...if you have a weak stomach stop reading!

My kids have a bunkbed, Dylan sleeps on top and Logan sleeps on the full bed on bottom (it's bigger, and naturally the bigger kid gets the bigger bed, says Logan) Dylan's covers at the end of the top bunk are tucked under the mattress and sometimes hang down a little at the end of Logan's bed. Apparently Logan has been pretty lazy, and instead of getting out of bed to get a tissue he wipes his goobers on the blanket that hangs down. It shocked me, because he gets so grossed out by things like that! I thought for sure they couldn't be his! But he admitted to it. So tonight I made him get a tissue and scrape off all the goobers from the end of the bed. It made my stomach roll just thinking about doing it, and it made him gag the whole time. Sometimes I think parenting is hilarious. I am hoping next time he thinks about doing that he will remember HE has to clean it up. Then maybe...just maybe he will muster up enough energy to get out of bed, walk the 2 feet to his desk and grab a tissue.

Tomorrow he is going to learn how to use the washer, then how to make the bed on the top bunk. I will let you know in 20 years if my parenting skills measure up.

It cracks me up this parenting journey. I really thought my parents knew everything. I am still amazed at how smart my mom is. She just seems to know what to do, how to do it, and for how long. In the spirit if Mother's Day, I sure hope that I am doing something right as a mother. I love my kids. I love being a mom. I don't love goobers, but I did secretly love watching him be completely grossed out by cleaning them up.

Happy Mother's Day. I hope you are enjoying the journey.

P.S. All photos taken courtesy of my early Mother's Day gift...my iphone. BEST...THING...EVER!